Friends Don't Follow Friends...
By Tom Foremski - April 28, 2009
It's interesting that my closest friends and family tend not to follow me on Twitter, Facebook or read SVW. They do occasionally, but it's rare.
I don't mind that my friends and family don't really know what I get up to online. But I do know some people that are upset that their friends don't have the same interest in their online worlds as do strangers thousands of miles away.
I asked on Twitter: Do you find that your closest friends tend not to follow you on Twitter or Facebook or your blog?
Here are some of the replies:
@peter that's absolutely true for me. Of course, most of them are not online all the time like I am. :-)
@meredithob - yes, i interact w/ my closest friends on a more personal level. communication is exchange-driven, they don't "follow" me.
@mindblink yes, it's mostly totally random strangers like me.... :)
@tiffanyanderson Some of my closest friends don't even know what twitter is. (^;
@JohnRourke ...So true
@chrissfife I tweet and blog mostly about marketing, many of my pals couldn't care less about marketing so they don't follow or read blog
@ginavon yes- I would agree w/that.
@james3neal - My best friend and my sister know that I love Twitter but neither one reads my Twitter feed. Sometimes my Mom does. :-)
@emiliecole I'd say more so on Twitter, as it seems to be most used for professional interests, convos and connections...
@SMCreative Yes, but they read it and make comments. Oddly enough I believe they're reluctant to have to redefine you in their heads.
Maybe it's the company I keep online, mostly media, PR, marketing specialists. We're interested in these media as extensions of what we do rather than using them for what they were created for: allowing friends and family to stay in touch more easily.
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Comments (5)
The great thing about social media tools is that there's something for everyone for any reason they want to use them: work, personal, family, friends, etc.
Posted: April 28, 2009 4:35 PM
I guess friends don't follow friends much, because it takes very little resources to maintain a bridge that's already built. So most of their effort goes into building new bridges with other people, which is very costly. (But admittedly more fund and interesting. After all, who wants to just keep repainting and replacing bolts on already built bridges?)
I do wonder though... what percentage of a typical user's time is spent on following/conversing with total strangers whom he will never meet in real life. (like what I'm doing right now on your web site. lol )
Posted: April 28, 2009 8:47 PM
Hmmm, it's really interesting. I noticed that I don't follow my friends myself!! I thought about it but couldn't came up with any reasons except I do that on Facebook and that's enough...but I can't think of any reason why I didn't follow my friends who don't on Facebook!
Posted: May 1, 2009 4:04 PM
I think what you say is true regarding friends not following best friends. Also, if people are using Twitter for business then it's even less common to have your friends follow you.
Posted: May 7, 2009 12:40 PM
As one of your friends who only occasionally pop in here (heh, heh), thought you'd want to see the following link, if you've not already...
http://www.bizjournals.com/sanfrancisco/stories/2009/05/04/daily93.html
Posted: May 12, 2009 7:37 PM